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Dating
williamsmith | August 4, 2025š āGood Luck Thoughā: And Other Phrases That Ruined My Night
From The Rejection Diaries of a Seasoned Gay By William E. Smith It started like all great modern...
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Relationships
williamsmith | August 4, 2025š Surviving Sexual Rejection and Staying Confident
It happens at every ageābut it hits different later in life By William E. Smith š« The Truth...
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The Mind
williamsmith | August 4, 2025š§š½āāļø Letting Go of Shame Around Body Changes & Aging
Wrinkles, bellies, and scars can still be sexy By Ryan Hayes š You Are Not Alone Letās be...
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Sex Life
williamsmith | August 2, 2025Swallowing the Truth: What Gay Men Over 40 Should Know About Oral Sex and Semen Ingestion
Author’s Note:This article is intended for adult gay men and approaches the topic of oral sex with honesty,...
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Relationships
williamsmith | August 2, 2025Bye Boomerā: What to Do When Youāre Treated Unfairly by Younger Gay Men in Public
Last Sunday, a man in his early 60s did what many of us do to lift our spiritsāhe...
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Other Interests
williamsmith | July 31, 2025Why Wearing a Ball Cap Is Sexy
A ball cap isnāt just an accessoryāitās a vibe. By Max Roberts Letās talk about something simpleābut undeniably...
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The Mind
williamsmith | July 31, 2025Why Procrastinating Might Actually Be Good for You
By Randy Watkins In a world obsessed with productivity, procrastination gets a bad rap. We’re constantly told to...
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Other Interests
williamsmith | July 31, 202512 Reasons Why Aging Forward Is Important for Gay Men Over 40
By William E. Smith In a world that often celebrates youth, especially in the gay community, it can...
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The Mind
williamsmith | July 27, 2025Why We Get More Antisocial As We AgeāAnd What That Really Means
By William E. SmithGay Life After 40 Thereās this quiet shift that happens to many of us after...
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The Mind
williamsmith | July 27, 2025Reinventing Yourself at 45: Itās Not Too Late to Start Over
By Jacob Kenney I didnāt think Iād be starting over at 45. But there I was: newly single...
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Sex Life
williamsmith | July 26, 2025How to Stop Thinking About Sex (All the Time)
By William Smith Letās be honest: sex is everywhere. From scrolling Instagram to watching a simple Netflix drama,...
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Sex Life
williamsmith | July 26, 2025Porn taught me how to fake intimacy. Life taught me how to feel it.
By: Thomas Mcbride | Gay Life After 40 Letās Get Real About It I was 32 the first...
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Relationships
williamsmith | July 22, 2025Why Gay Men Falter in Relationships (And How We Can Do Better)
By William Smith Letās be real: relationships are hardāgay or straight. But for many gay men, particularly those...
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The Mind
williamsmith | July 22, 2025š Books Every Gay Man Over 40 Should Read
Because wisdom, healing, and laughter never go out of style By William E. Smith There comes a point...
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Travel
williamsmith | July 22, 2025āļø Gay Travel Tips: Visiting the UK with Pride and Ease
Whether you’re planning a solo trip to explore Londonās Soho or looking to connect with community in cozy...

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