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Relationships
williamsmith | December 28, 2025When the Person You Love Is Convinced You’re Cheating
“Love shouldn’t feel like a courtroom where you’re constantly asked to prove your innocence.” By Andrew Adkins There’s...
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Relationships
williamsmith | December 28, 2025Loving Someone Who Was Cruel — and Learning to Leave
By A Man Who Chose Himself For a long time, I told myself that love meant patience. That...
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Relationships
williamsmith | December 24, 2025I Was a Cheater
By Anonymous If you’re reading this after forty, you already know how layered our lives become. We carry...
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Relationships
williamsmith | December 23, 2025What Does a Healthy Relationship Look Like?
By Richard Maine At this stage of life, many of us are rethinking what love actually looks like....
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Sex Life
williamsmith | December 21, 2025The Taste of Sex
By Billy Boyd When I was younger, I thought liking the taste of semen was something you either...
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The Mind
williamsmith | December 7, 2025Feeling Overwhelmed? Try These 7 Science-Backed Stress Relief Tips
Stress is a natural part of life, but in today’s fast-paced world, many of us experience it more...
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Sex Life
williamsmith | December 1, 2025What Is PrEP and How Does It Work?
PrEP is a medication that prevents HIV when taken either daily or at scheduled intervals (like long-acting injections)....
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Relationships
williamsmith | December 1, 2025When the Touch Fades: Navigating the Loss of Intimacy After 40
By Myles Miller There’s a moment in every long-term relationship when you realize something has shifted. You can’t...
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Family Dynamics
williamsmith | November 24, 2025When Family Is Toxic: Finding Peace, Healing, and Real Love After 40
By Max Roberts There’s a certain sting that never fully goes away when you’re estranged from family—especially the...
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Other Interests
williamsmith | November 24, 2025Gay Men in the Service Industry: Holiday Magic, Holiday Madness
By Spencer Martin For many gay men—especially those of us over 40—the service industry has been a steady...
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Other Interests
williamsmith | November 24, 2025Gay and Over 40: Thanksgiving Then and Now
By Spencer Martin When you’re gay and over 40, Thanksgiving becomes this funny mix of nostalgia, gratitude, and...
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The Mind
williamsmith | November 22, 2025Finding Yourself in the Wilderness: Why Stepping Into the Unknown Can Help You
By William Smith There comes a point in life—especially after 40—when the noise of the world becomes too...
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Other Interests
williamsmith | November 17, 2025How to Start a Nonprofit Organization: A Realistic, Jumbled (but Complete) Guide
By Bruce Fletcher Starting a nonprofit isn’t just about heart — it’s about structure, compliance, and community. Whether...
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The Mind
williamsmith | November 6, 2025The Day I Deleted Grindr
By Anonymous Feeling Trapped in the Swipe I’m in my 40s now, and for a long time, I...
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The Mind
williamsmith | November 5, 2025🧰 Midlife Financial Bounce-Back Toolkit
For Gay Men Ready to Reset, Rebuild, and Reclaim ControlCurated by William E. Smith | Gay Life After...

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