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williamsmith | November 24, 2025Gay and Over 40: Thanksgiving Then and Now
By Spencer Martin When you’re gay and over 40, Thanksgiving becomes this funny mix of nostalgia, gratitude, and...
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The Mind
williamsmith | November 22, 2025Finding Yourself in the Wilderness: Why Stepping Into the Unknown Can Help You
By William Smith There comes a point in life—especially after 40—when the noise of the world becomes too...
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Other Interests
williamsmith | November 17, 2025How to Start a Nonprofit Organization: A Realistic, Jumbled (but Complete) Guide
By Bruce Fletcher Starting a nonprofit isn’t just about heart — it’s about structure, compliance, and community. Whether...
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The Mind
williamsmith | November 6, 2025The Day I Deleted Grindr
By Anonymous Feeling Trapped in the Swipe I’m in my 40s now, and for a long time, I...
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The Mind
williamsmith | November 5, 2025🧰 Midlife Financial Bounce-Back Toolkit
For Gay Men Ready to Reset, Rebuild, and Reclaim ControlCurated by William E. Smith | Gay Life After...
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williamsmith | October 24, 2025“Bounced a Bit? How to Bounce Back From Midlife Financial Mistakes”
By William E. Smith | Gay Life After 40 So you made the choice. Took out the loan....
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Sex Life
williamsmith | October 22, 2025Part 2 : From Paid Intimacy to Real Connection: Learning to Open Your Heart Again
After years of loneliness or disappointment, paying for intimacy can feel like a safe middle ground — touch...
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The Body
williamsmith | October 18, 20255 Major Health issues for Gay Men Over 40
By Tyler Quinn & ChatGPT Here are five major health issues that tend to be of particular importance...
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The Body
williamsmith | October 16, 2025Why Am I So Tired?
Understanding Fatigue in Gay Men Over 40 By Dean Ellis It’s not just you. That unshakable tiredness that...
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Sex Life
williamsmith | October 16, 2025Part 1: Loneliness and Intimacy: Why Some of Us Pay for Connection
By Jon Noer There’s a kind of loneliness that doesn’t show up on social media. You can have...
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Dating
williamsmith | October 12, 2025🧘🏽♂️ How to Stay Confident Through Rejection
By Thomas Meyer 1. Feel It—Then Release It It’s okay to feel disappointed. Hurt. Even a little angry.But...
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Other Interests
williamsmith | October 12, 2025Why Gay History Matters
By Thomas Meyer When we talk about gay history, we’re not just talking about dates, riots, or names...
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Sex Life
williamsmith | October 8, 2025Is There Something Wrong With Me? I Think About Sex 24/7
by Anonymous – for Gay Life After 40 There are days when I wonder if something’s wrong with...
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Relationships
williamsmith | October 6, 2025I Fell for a Married Man Who Love-Bombed Me 💔
By Anonymous – Gay Life After 40 Dating after 40 can be tricky. You think you’ve seen it...
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Sex Life
williamsmith | October 5, 2025The Ethics of Paying for Sex: Between Choice and Exploitation
By Max Weber As gay men over 40, many of us have witnessed the evolution of sex itself...

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