Sex Life
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OnlyFans and the Illusion of Intimacy: How Gay Men Over 40 Are Being Emotionally and Financially Drained
OnlyFans is frequently marketed as empowerment — a platform where creators control their labor and their income. And...
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The Taste of Sex
By Billy Boyd When I was younger, I thought liking the taste of semen was something you either...
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What Is PrEP and How Does It Work?
PrEP is a medication that prevents HIV when taken either daily or at scheduled intervals (like long-acting injections)....
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Part 2 : From Paid Intimacy to Real Connection: Learning to Open Your Heart Again
After years of loneliness or disappointment, paying for intimacy can feel like a safe middle ground — touch...
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Part 1: Loneliness and Intimacy: Why Some of Us Pay for Connection
By Jon Noer There’s a kind of loneliness that doesn’t show up on social media. You can have...
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Is There Something Wrong With Me? I Think About Sex 24/7
by Anonymous – for Gay Life After 40 There are days when I wonder if something’s wrong with...
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The Ethics of Paying for Sex: Between Choice and Exploitation
By Max Weber As gay men over 40, many of us have witnessed the evolution of sex itself...
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The Naughty Guidebook: 10 Gay Kinks Men Can’t Get Enough Of
1. Leather & GearStrap in, literally. A harness, some boots, maybe a jockstrap made of cowhide—suddenly you’re not...
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Is Gay Sex Boring? Let’s Be Honest for a Minute
By Gary Childers Be real: not every hookup is fireworks. Sometimes it’s awkward. Sometimes it’s predictable. Sometimes it’s...
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Beyond Tops and Bottoms: Why “Sides” Should Be Part of the Conversation
By Max Harper In gay culture, labels like top, bottom, and versatile are ubiquitous shorthand for describing sexual...
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Tops, Bottoms, and Masculinity: Busting Myths in Gay Sex
By Max Harper One of the most stubborn myths in gay culture is the idea that your sexual...
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12 Things Gay Men Are Fond of About Sex
By Ryan Hayes Let’s face it: sex is one of those universal joys that never quite loses its...
