The Body
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williamsmith | February 5, 2026What Is Doxy-PEP? Promise and Trade-Offs for Men Over 40
By Izzy Michael Doxy-PEP (post-exposure prophylaxis) involves taking a single dose of doxycycline within 72 hours after condomless...
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williamsmith | January 30, 2026Lot Lizards: Behind the Truck Stop Lights
By Izzy Michael Loneliness, Survival, and the Men We Pretend Not to See The term “lot lizard” is...
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williamsmith | January 21, 2026OnlyFans and the Illusion of Intimacy: How Gay Men Over 40 Are Being Emotionally and Financially Drained
OnlyFans is frequently marketed as empowerment — a platform where creators control their labor and their income. And...
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williamsmith | December 21, 2025The Taste of Sex
By Billy Boyd When I was younger, I thought liking the taste of semen was something you either...
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williamsmith | December 1, 2025What Is PrEP and How Does It Work?
PrEP is a medication that prevents HIV when taken either daily or at scheduled intervals (like long-acting injections)....
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williamsmith | October 22, 2025Part 2 : From Paid Intimacy to Real Connection: Learning to Open Your Heart Again
After years of loneliness or disappointment, paying for intimacy can feel like a safe middle ground — touch...
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williamsmith | October 18, 20255 Major Health issues for Gay Men Over 40
By Tyler Quinn & ChatGPT Here are five major health issues that tend to be of particular importance...
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williamsmith | October 16, 2025Why Am I So Tired?
Understanding Fatigue in Gay Men Over 40 By Dean Ellis It’s not just you. That unshakable tiredness that...
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williamsmith | October 16, 2025Part 1: Loneliness and Intimacy: Why Some of Us Pay for Connection
By Jon Noer There’s a kind of loneliness that doesn’t show up on social media. You can have...
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williamsmith | October 8, 2025Is There Something Wrong With Me? I Think About Sex 24/7
by Anonymous – for Gay Life After 40 There are days when I wonder if something’s wrong with...
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williamsmith | October 5, 2025The Ethics of Paying for Sex: Between Choice and Exploitation
By Max Weber As gay men over 40, many of us have witnessed the evolution of sex itself...
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williamsmith | September 5, 2025The Naughty Guidebook: 10 Gay Kinks Men Can’t Get Enough Of
1. Leather & GearStrap in, literally. A harness, some boots, maybe a jockstrap made of cowhide—suddenly you’re not...
