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    williamsmith | September 7, 2025

    Can Sexual Orientation Change as We Age?

    By Jon Jacobs When I was younger, I thought sexual orientation was a locked box—you were either straight,...

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    williamsmith | September 5, 2025

    The Naughty Guidebook: 10 Gay Kinks Men Can’t Get Enough Of

    1. Leather & GearStrap in, literally. A harness, some boots, maybe a jockstrap made of cowhide—suddenly you’re not...

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    williamsmith | August 31, 2025

    10 Signs You’re a Gay Man Over 40 (and Totally Owning It)

    By Jonathan Widmar Turning 40 doesn’t mean fading into the background—it means you’ve finally earned the right to...

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    williamsmith | August 29, 2025

    Why Do I Want to Buy Things When I Don’t Have the Funds?

    By Kyle Hoffman I’m over 40 now, and you’d think I would have money figured out by this...

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    williamsmith | August 28, 2025

    Daddy Issues: Confessions of a Gay Man Over 40

    By Antonio Ayales Being gay and over 40 is… complicated. You’re not quite old enough to retire, not...

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    williamsmith | August 28, 2025

    Dear Friend,

    By Ken Kaiser Happy 50th birthday, my friend! Reaching this milestone is no small thing, and I wanted...

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    williamsmith | August 26, 2025

    Why I Appreciate Silence More Than Ever

    By Jon Jacobson As I’ve gotten older, I’ve noticed something shift: I crave silence in a way I...

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    williamsmith | August 26, 2025

    Is Gay Sex Boring? Let’s Be Honest for a Minute

    By Gary Childers Be real: not every hookup is fireworks. Sometimes it’s awkward. Sometimes it’s predictable. Sometimes it’s...

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    williamsmith | August 24, 2025

    A Letter to My Younger Self at 25

    Dear Me, You’re 25, full of energy, dreams, and more than a little self-doubt. I’m writing to you...

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    williamsmith | August 24, 2025

    Beyond Tops and Bottoms: Why “Sides” Should Be Part of the Conversation

    By Max Harper In gay culture, labels like top, bottom, and versatile are ubiquitous shorthand for describing sexual...

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    williamsmith | August 23, 2025

    10 Health Concerns to Pay Attention to After 40

    By Tyler Quinn Crossing into your 40s isn’t a decline—it’s a turning point. This is the decade where...

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    williamsmith | August 22, 2025

    When “Forever” Suddenly Feels Fragile: My Partner Wants an Open Relationship

    By Anonymous I always thought I understood the rules of our relationship. We laughed about how we were...

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    williamsmith | August 22, 2025

    Tops, Bottoms, and Masculinity: Busting Myths in Gay Sex

    By Max Harper One of the most stubborn myths in gay culture is the idea that your sexual...

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    williamsmith | August 17, 2025

    12 Things Gay Men Are Fond of About Sex

    By Ryan Hayes Let’s face it: sex is one of those universal joys that never quite loses its...

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    williamsmith | August 15, 2025

    Creating Joy as a Single Gay Man Over 40

    A Gay Life After 40 Blog Post 🌤️ Let’s Be Honest… Being single over 40 isn’t always easy.The...

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