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The Mind
williamsmith | August 28, 2025Dear Friend,
By Ken Kaiser Happy 50th birthday, my friend! Reaching this milestone is no small thing, and I wanted...
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The Body
williamsmith | August 26, 2025Why I Appreciate Silence More Than Ever
By Jon Jacobson As I’ve gotten older, I’ve noticed something shift: I crave silence in a way I...
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Sex Life
williamsmith | August 26, 2025Is Gay Sex Boring? Let’s Be Honest for a Minute
By Gary Childers Be real: not every hookup is fireworks. Sometimes it’s awkward. Sometimes it’s predictable. Sometimes it’s...
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The Mind
williamsmith | August 24, 2025A Letter to My Younger Self at 25
Dear Me, You’re 25, full of energy, dreams, and more than a little self-doubt. I’m writing to you...
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Sex Life
williamsmith | August 24, 2025Beyond Tops and Bottoms: Why “Sides” Should Be Part of the Conversation
By Max Harper In gay culture, labels like top, bottom, and versatile are ubiquitous shorthand for describing sexual...
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The Body
williamsmith | August 23, 202510 Health Concerns to Pay Attention to After 40
By Tyler Quinn Crossing into your 40s isn’t a decline—it’s a turning point. This is the decade where...
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Relationships
williamsmith | August 22, 2025When “Forever” Suddenly Feels Fragile: My Partner Wants an Open Relationship
By Anonymous I always thought I understood the rules of our relationship. We laughed about how we were...
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Sex Life
williamsmith | August 22, 2025Tops, Bottoms, and Masculinity: Busting Myths in Gay Sex
By Max Harper One of the most stubborn myths in gay culture is the idea that your sexual...
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Sex Life
williamsmith | August 17, 202512 Things Gay Men Are Fond of About Sex
By Ryan Hayes Let’s face it: sex is one of those universal joys that never quite loses its...
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Other Interests
williamsmith | August 15, 2025Creating Joy as a Single Gay Man Over 40
A Gay Life After 40 Blog Post 🌤️ Let’s Be Honest… Being single over 40 isn’t always easy.The...
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Relationships
williamsmith | August 9, 2025The Power of Friendship: Building and Nurturing Chosen Family
As we journey through life, especially after 40, the importance of genuine connection becomes clearer than ever. For...
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The Body
williamsmith | August 9, 2025When the Glass Is Too Full: Understanding Excessive Alcohol Consumption After 40
By Marc Mitchell As we reach our 40s, many of us begin to notice shifts in our bodies,...
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The Body
williamsmith | August 9, 2025When the Flag Doesn’t Rise: A Personal Reflection on ED After 40
By David Martinez I never thought it would happen to me. I was supposed to be the Latin...
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The Mind
williamsmith | August 7, 2025After Forty isn’t over the hill — it’s the penthouse suite, and I’ve got the key
By William E. Smith Turning 40? Oh honey, welcome to the main stage. Your 20s were the warm-up...
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Dating
williamsmith | August 4, 2025💔 “Good Luck Though”: And Other Phrases That Ruined My Night
From The Rejection Diaries of a Seasoned Gay By William E. Smith It started like all great modern...

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