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Sex Life
williamsmith | October 16, 2025Part 1: Loneliness and Intimacy: Why Some of Us Pay for Connection
By Jon Noer There’s a kind of loneliness that doesn’t show up on social media. You can have...
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Dating
williamsmith | October 12, 2025🧘🏽♂️ How to Stay Confident Through Rejection
By Thomas Meyer 1. Feel It—Then Release It It’s okay to feel disappointed. Hurt. Even a little angry.But...
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Other Interests
williamsmith | October 12, 2025Why Gay History Matters
By Thomas Meyer When we talk about gay history, we’re not just talking about dates, riots, or names...
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Sex Life
williamsmith | October 8, 2025Is There Something Wrong With Me? I Think About Sex 24/7
by Anonymous – for Gay Life After 40 There are days when I wonder if something’s wrong with...
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Relationships
williamsmith | October 6, 2025I Fell for a Married Man Who Love-Bombed Me 💔
By Anonymous – Gay Life After 40 Dating after 40 can be tricky. You think you’ve seen it...
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Sex Life
williamsmith | October 5, 2025The Ethics of Paying for Sex: Between Choice and Exploitation
By Max Weber As gay men over 40, many of us have witnessed the evolution of sex itself...
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Relationships
williamsmith | October 3, 2025Moving Forward from Past Mistakes, Including Infidelity
By William Smith Life after 40 gives us the gift of perspective, but it also comes with the...
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Other Interests
williamsmith | September 29, 2025Part 1: The Top 5 Fears Gay Men Face After 40
Turning 40 is a milestone—one that brings wisdom and self-knowledge, but it can also stir up fears many...
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Other Interests
williamsmith | September 19, 2025What People Can’t Take Away From Us as Gay Men
As gay men, we’ve faced centuries of misunderstanding, judgment, and exclusion. Yet, despite all the struggles, there are...
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Other Interests
williamsmith | September 15, 2025When You Feel Your Gay Rights Are Being Violated After 40
By Byron Adams When You Feel Your Gay Rights Are Being Violated After 40 Being over 40 has...
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Dating
williamsmith | September 7, 2025Finding Fault with Everyone You Date: When No One is Good Enough
By Max Weber Dating can be tough at any age, but for many gay men over 40, the...
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Other Interests
williamsmith | September 7, 2025Can Sexual Orientation Change as We Age?
By Jon Jacobs When I was younger, I thought sexual orientation was a locked box—you were either straight,...
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Sex Life
williamsmith | September 5, 2025The Naughty Guidebook: 10 Gay Kinks Men Can’t Get Enough Of
1. Leather & GearStrap in, literally. A harness, some boots, maybe a jockstrap made of cowhide—suddenly you’re not...
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The Mind
williamsmith | August 31, 202510 Signs You’re a Gay Man Over 40 (and Totally Owning It)
By Jonathan Widmar Turning 40 doesn’t mean fading into the background—it means you’ve finally earned the right to...
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The Mind
williamsmith | August 29, 2025Why Do I Want to Buy Things When I Don’t Have the Funds?
By Kyle Hoffman I’m over 40 now, and you’d think I would have money figured out by this...

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