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    williamsmith | October 3, 2025

    Moving Forward from Past Mistakes, Including Infidelity

    By William Smith Life after 40 gives us the gift of perspective, but it also comes with the...

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    williamsmith | September 29, 2025

    Part 1: The Top 5 Fears Gay Men Face After 40

    Turning 40 is a milestone—one that brings wisdom and self-knowledge, but it can also stir up fears many...

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    williamsmith | September 19, 2025

    What People Can’t Take Away From Us as Gay Men

    As gay men, we’ve faced centuries of misunderstanding, judgment, and exclusion. Yet, despite all the struggles, there are...

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    williamsmith | September 15, 2025

    When You Feel Your Gay Rights Are Being Violated After 40

    By Byron Adams When You Feel Your Gay Rights Are Being Violated After 40 Being over 40 has...

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    williamsmith | September 7, 2025

    Finding Fault with Everyone You Date: When No One is Good Enough

    By Max Weber Dating can be tough at any age, but for many gay men over 40, the...

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    williamsmith | September 7, 2025

    Can Sexual Orientation Change as We Age?

    By Jon Jacobs When I was younger, I thought sexual orientation was a locked box—you were either straight,...

  • Sex Life

    williamsmith | September 5, 2025

    The Naughty Guidebook: 10 Gay Kinks Men Can’t Get Enough Of

    1. Leather & GearStrap in, literally. A harness, some boots, maybe a jockstrap made of cowhide—suddenly you’re not...

  • The Mind

    williamsmith | August 31, 2025

    10 Signs You’re a Gay Man Over 40 (and Totally Owning It)

    By Jonathan Widmar Turning 40 doesn’t mean fading into the background—it means you’ve finally earned the right to...

  • The Mind

    williamsmith | August 29, 2025

    Why Do I Want to Buy Things When I Don’t Have the Funds?

    By Kyle Hoffman I’m over 40 now, and you’d think I would have money figured out by this...

  • Other Interests

    williamsmith | August 28, 2025

    Daddy Issues: Confessions of a Gay Man Over 40

    By Antonio Ayales Being gay and over 40 is… complicated. You’re not quite old enough to retire, not...

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    williamsmith | August 28, 2025

    Dear Friend,

    By Ken Kaiser Happy 50th birthday, my friend! Reaching this milestone is no small thing, and I wanted...

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    williamsmith | August 26, 2025

    Why I Appreciate Silence More Than Ever

    By Jon Jacobson As I’ve gotten older, I’ve noticed something shift: I crave silence in a way I...

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    williamsmith | August 26, 2025

    Is Gay Sex Boring? Let’s Be Honest for a Minute

    By Gary Childers Be real: not every hookup is fireworks. Sometimes it’s awkward. Sometimes it’s predictable. Sometimes it’s...

  • The Mind

    williamsmith | August 24, 2025

    A Letter to My Younger Self at 25

    Dear Me, You’re 25, full of energy, dreams, and more than a little self-doubt. I’m writing to you...

  • Sex Life

    williamsmith | August 24, 2025

    Beyond Tops and Bottoms: Why “Sides” Should Be Part of the Conversation

    By Max Harper In gay culture, labels like top, bottom, and versatile are ubiquitous shorthand for describing sexual...

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