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    williamsmith | October 12, 2025

    🧘🏽‍♂️ How to Stay Confident Through Rejection

    By Thomas Meyer 1. Feel It—Then Release It It’s okay to feel disappointed. Hurt. Even a little angry.But...

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    williamsmith | October 12, 2025

    Why Gay History Matters

    By Thomas Meyer When we talk about gay history, we’re not just talking about dates, riots, or names...

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    williamsmith | October 8, 2025

    Is There Something Wrong With Me? I Think About Sex 24/7

    by Anonymous – for Gay Life After 40 There are days when I wonder if something’s wrong with...

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    williamsmith | October 6, 2025

    I Fell for a Married Man Who Love-Bombed Me 💔

    By Anonymous – Gay Life After 40 Dating after 40 can be tricky. You think you’ve seen it...

  • Sex Life
    williamsmith | October 5, 2025

    The Ethics of Paying for Sex: Between Choice and Exploitation

    By Max Weber As gay men over 40, many of us have witnessed the evolution of sex itself...

  • Relationships
    williamsmith | October 3, 2025

    Moving Forward from Past Mistakes, Including Infidelity

    By William Smith Life after 40 gives us the gift of perspective, but it also comes with the...

  • Other Interests
    williamsmith | September 29, 2025

    Part 1: The Top 5 Fears Gay Men Face After 40

    Turning 40 is a milestone—one that brings wisdom and self-knowledge, but it can also stir up fears many...

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    williamsmith | September 19, 2025

    What People Can’t Take Away From Us as Gay Men

    As gay men, we’ve faced centuries of misunderstanding, judgment, and exclusion. Yet, despite all the struggles, there are...

  • Other Interests
    williamsmith | September 15, 2025

    When You Feel Your Gay Rights Are Being Violated After 40

    By Byron Adams When You Feel Your Gay Rights Are Being Violated After 40 Being over 40 has...

  • Dating
    williamsmith | September 7, 2025

    Finding Fault with Everyone You Date: When No One is Good Enough

    By Max Weber Dating can be tough at any age, but for many gay men over 40, the...

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    williamsmith | September 7, 2025

    Can Sexual Orientation Change as We Age?

    By Jon Jacobs When I was younger, I thought sexual orientation was a locked box—you were either straight,...

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    williamsmith | September 5, 2025

    The Naughty Guidebook: 10 Gay Kinks Men Can’t Get Enough Of

    1. Leather & GearStrap in, literally. A harness, some boots, maybe a jockstrap made of cowhide—suddenly you’re not...

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    williamsmith | August 31, 2025

    10 Signs You’re a Gay Man Over 40 (and Totally Owning It)

    By Jonathan Widmar Turning 40 doesn’t mean fading into the background—it means you’ve finally earned the right to...

  • The Mind
    williamsmith | August 29, 2025

    Why Do I Want to Buy Things When I Don’t Have the Funds?

    By Kyle Hoffman I’m over 40 now, and you’d think I would have money figured out by this...

  • Other Interests
    williamsmith | August 28, 2025

    Daddy Issues: Confessions of a Gay Man Over 40

    By Antonio Ayales Being gay and over 40 is… complicated. You’re not quite old enough to retire, not...
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It is an amazing and exciting time for all of us. Our age has proven to all of us that we are a resilient, adaptable and an assertive bunch. We did not let somebody stand in the way to be who we are. We took risks in letting our family and friends know who we truly are. Taking risks in growing can be difficult but we did it. And we can do the same today –creating new goals, exploring new worlds, and making the most of what we have (if we let it) by Aging Forward!

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