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williamsmith | October 24, 2025“Bounced a Bit? How to Bounce Back From Midlife Financial Mistakes”
By William E. Smith | Gay Life After 40 So you made the choice. Took out the loan....
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Sex Life
williamsmith | October 22, 2025Part 2 : From Paid Intimacy to Real Connection: Learning to Open Your Heart Again
After years of loneliness or disappointment, paying for intimacy can feel like a safe middle ground — touch...
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The Body
williamsmith | October 18, 20255 Major Health issues for Gay Men Over 40
By Tyler Quinn & ChatGPT Here are five major health issues that tend to be of particular importance...
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The Body
williamsmith | October 16, 2025Why Am I So Tired?
Understanding Fatigue in Gay Men Over 40 By Dean Ellis It’s not just you. That unshakable tiredness that...
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Sex Life
williamsmith | October 16, 2025Part 1: Loneliness and Intimacy: Why Some of Us Pay for Connection
By Jon Noer There’s a kind of loneliness that doesn’t show up on social media. You can have...
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Dating
williamsmith | October 12, 2025🧘🏽♂️ How to Stay Confident Through Rejection
By Thomas Meyer 1. Feel It—Then Release It It’s okay to feel disappointed. Hurt. Even a little angry.But...
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williamsmith | October 12, 2025Why Gay History Matters
By Thomas Meyer When we talk about gay history, we’re not just talking about dates, riots, or names...
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Sex Life
williamsmith | October 8, 2025Is There Something Wrong With Me? I Think About Sex 24/7
by Anonymous – for Gay Life After 40 There are days when I wonder if something’s wrong with...
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Relationships
williamsmith | October 6, 2025I Fell for a Married Man Who Love-Bombed Me 💔
By Anonymous – Gay Life After 40 Dating after 40 can be tricky. You think you’ve seen it...
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Sex Life
williamsmith | October 5, 2025The Ethics of Paying for Sex: Between Choice and Exploitation
By Max Weber As gay men over 40, many of us have witnessed the evolution of sex itself...
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Relationships
williamsmith | October 3, 2025Moving Forward from Past Mistakes, Including Infidelity
By William Smith Life after 40 gives us the gift of perspective, but it also comes with the...
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williamsmith | September 29, 2025Part 1: The Top 5 Fears Gay Men Face After 40
Turning 40 is a milestone—one that brings wisdom and self-knowledge, but it can also stir up fears many...
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williamsmith | September 19, 2025What People Can’t Take Away From Us as Gay Men
As gay men, we’ve faced centuries of misunderstanding, judgment, and exclusion. Yet, despite all the struggles, there are...
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Other Interests
williamsmith | September 15, 2025When You Feel Your Gay Rights Are Being Violated After 40
By Byron Adams When You Feel Your Gay Rights Are Being Violated After 40 Being over 40 has...
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Dating
williamsmith | September 7, 2025Finding Fault with Everyone You Date: When No One is Good Enough
By Max Weber Dating can be tough at any age, but for many gay men over 40, the...

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