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Relationships
williamsmith | October 3, 2025Moving Forward from Past Mistakes, Including Infidelity
By William Smith Life after 40 gives us the gift of perspective, but it also comes with the...
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Other Interests
williamsmith | September 29, 2025Part 1: The Top 5 Fears Gay Men Face After 40
Turning 40 is a milestone—one that brings wisdom and self-knowledge, but it can also stir up fears many...
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Other Interests
williamsmith | September 19, 2025What People Can’t Take Away From Us as Gay Men
As gay men, we’ve faced centuries of misunderstanding, judgment, and exclusion. Yet, despite all the struggles, there are...
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Other Interests
williamsmith | September 15, 2025When You Feel Your Gay Rights Are Being Violated After 40
By Byron Adams When You Feel Your Gay Rights Are Being Violated After 40 Being over 40 has...
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Dating
williamsmith | September 7, 2025Finding Fault with Everyone You Date: When No One is Good Enough
By Max Weber Dating can be tough at any age, but for many gay men over 40, the...
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Other Interests
williamsmith | September 7, 2025Can Sexual Orientation Change as We Age?
By Jon Jacobs When I was younger, I thought sexual orientation was a locked box—you were either straight,...
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Sex Life
williamsmith | September 5, 2025The Naughty Guidebook: 10 Gay Kinks Men Can’t Get Enough Of
1. Leather & GearStrap in, literally. A harness, some boots, maybe a jockstrap made of cowhide—suddenly you’re not...
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The Mind
williamsmith | August 31, 202510 Signs You’re a Gay Man Over 40 (and Totally Owning It)
By Jonathan Widmar Turning 40 doesn’t mean fading into the background—it means you’ve finally earned the right to...
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The Mind
williamsmith | August 29, 2025Why Do I Want to Buy Things When I Don’t Have the Funds?
By Kyle Hoffman I’m over 40 now, and you’d think I would have money figured out by this...
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Other Interests
williamsmith | August 28, 2025Daddy Issues: Confessions of a Gay Man Over 40
By Antonio Ayales Being gay and over 40 is… complicated. You’re not quite old enough to retire, not...
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The Mind
williamsmith | August 28, 2025Dear Friend,
By Ken Kaiser Happy 50th birthday, my friend! Reaching this milestone is no small thing, and I wanted...
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The Body
williamsmith | August 26, 2025Why I Appreciate Silence More Than Ever
By Jon Jacobson As I’ve gotten older, I’ve noticed something shift: I crave silence in a way I...
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Sex Life
williamsmith | August 26, 2025Is Gay Sex Boring? Let’s Be Honest for a Minute
By Gary Childers Be real: not every hookup is fireworks. Sometimes it’s awkward. Sometimes it’s predictable. Sometimes it’s...
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The Mind
williamsmith | August 24, 2025A Letter to My Younger Self at 25
Dear Me, You’re 25, full of energy, dreams, and more than a little self-doubt. I’m writing to you...
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Sex Life
williamsmith | August 24, 2025Beyond Tops and Bottoms: Why “Sides” Should Be Part of the Conversation
By Max Harper In gay culture, labels like top, bottom, and versatile are ubiquitous shorthand for describing sexual...

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