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The Consequences of Watching Porn

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By Max Roberts

The Good News

I enjoy watching gay porn nowadays. It is so different than years ago. Gone are the days of the black closeted rooms and the glory holes. Now,  I can watch it in the privacy of my own home and in High definition ! without some other male looing at me thru a hole in the wall.

The  categories are so helpful when your wanting to see a fetish that you always wanted to pursue or learn some new sexual technique or position.

Porn can help me be a better sexual partner because I try not make it boring but add things to the mix with my partner.

Fascinated by this world of unleashed sexual expression and fantasy, I can’t seem to  get enough of it. I thought I’d outgrow my porn habit over time. But I never did.

Houston we have a problem..

I realize that  porn can also be a problem for me. I realize that the more I watch, the more unrealistic expectations I have for my partner.

I felt a numbness at times because I wanted to have that private time between me and my computer vs. my partner. Inability to orgasm when not watching porn was becoming a reality., and general lack of interest in everyday life.

It could have caused me  problems at work. You see I  envisioned sexual acts at work in my head which is totally not like I want to see or think about with my working colleagues or customers. I started losing respect for others. I don’t want to have sexual moments all day in my brain and think that I could be called out by  the Me2 movement as a predator for real if I acted upon it and possibly get arrested.

We must take it seriously

You might be thinking that I am taking porn too seriously but I say we must take it seriously. Porn is great but I found that one  must take control of it or it could control you. I had to tell myself that this is not reality. It is fantasy. Porn addiction is an extremely complex issue with no simple answers or cookie cutter solutions but one thing I do know is that one must keep it in check.  As gay men we should honestly talk about this issue to each other and support each other in the process. I want to see my fellow gay men in reality as people and not just as sexual objects. I am better than that and I believe you are too. I hope this article at least brings a dialogue of conversation.

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2 Comments

  1. RoyS

    February 2, 2018 at 12:32 pm

    Porn is fantasy. Absolutely. Its is great to feed the imagination, but do not expect reality to match it. Even if you find yourself in one of your fantasy situations, often you find that the fantasy is more exciting than the reality. With porn, you are the only person you have to think about. With real sex there is (are) others to consider.

  2. Matt

    February 15, 2018 at 1:20 am

    I’ve had men tell me they’d rather go home and jerk off to porn than have sex with me which was pointlessly mean, but they were being honest. I’ve used porn to ‘release’ my tensions and not look for men to date. I’ve had a lot less sex because of the increasing availability of porn.

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